Why Does the Victim of a Cheater Get Blamed? Oct 07, 2024

I've seen countless incidents of a spouse engaging in romantic infidelity, and then blaming their spouse. His wife didn't do this or that. She was too focused on the kids. Their sex life wasn't spicy enough. He didn't feel loved and appreciated.  She made the home life hard.

Let's be clear:...

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Facing Your Financial Fears Oct 03, 2024

This week on the Find Me the Money Podcast, we have Leah Marie Mazur, a certified Divorce Recovery Coach and the founder of Mindfully Ready. She's an expert at helping women navigate the mental and emotional aspects of divorce and has a community for women rebuilding after divorce...

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Find Your Advocate: Secrets to Choosing the Best Attorney for Your Divorce Oct 02, 2024

You don't want to miss next week's workshop in our series, Divorce Decoded: Unveiling the Secrets Your Attorney Isn’t Telling You.

The session on October 8 is all about finding the attorney who is best for your case, whether you are amicable, high-conflict, or somewhere in between. In Find...

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Stop Saying "I Can't Afford It" Sep 30, 2024

There is so much stress around the issue of money, and this is especially true for women who are getting divorced.

And it leads lots of us to say the dreaded words: "I can't afford it."

Jackie Pilossoph of Divorced Girl Smiling went through this with her own divorce. But she wants you to remember...

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When Dating After Divorce Meets Money Sep 26, 2024

Many women who are going through divorce can't even imagine dating again. They are left brokenhearted and financial devastated, in many cases, and the thought of another long-term romantic relationship is scary.

But the truth is that most of us going through divorce WILL date again. Many of us...

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Mediate or Litigate? Sep 25, 2024

The second workshop in the series, Divorce Decoded: Unveiling the Secrets Your Attorney Isn’t Telling You, is happening next week. I don't want you to miss it!

The upcoming session on October 1 is called Mediate or Litigate: Secrets to Navigating the Divorce Legal Process... and it's all...

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How to Know If You Need a Forensic Accountant Sep 23, 2024

When there are questions about money in a divorce, you might hear your attorney or a friend say "you need a forensic accountant"!!!! But how do you know if you REALLY need to invest thousands of dollars into a professional to look into the finances?

Most divorce cases do not need the involvement...

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Legal Abuse: When Your Ex Uses the Divorce To Wear You Down and Bleed You Dry Financially Sep 19, 2024

This week on the Find Me The Money podcast, our guest is Lisa Johnson of Been There Got Out.  Lisa and her partner Chris are specialists in high conflict divorce. They've both been through very costly divorces that had extreme conflict. They learned how to navigate the legal system and take...

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Secrets Your Attorney Isn't Telling You Sep 18, 2024

I know how overwhelming divorce can be. Quite frankly, it's a labyrinth of issues, documents, legal filings, and more. And your divorce is probably costing you an arm and a leg when it comes to the attorneys' fees.

There are so many things you couldn't possibly know about the process because...

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Tough Talk About the Family Home Sep 16, 2024

The family home is very often a hot topic in the divorce, especially if you have children. There is often a desire to keep some stability for the kids, and keeping them in the family home seems to do that. You may have neighbors you've grown attached to, or a neighborhood school that your...

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